Tumor stability: two years

We are grateful for another good MRI this week with no change in Susan's brain tumor and no increase in swelling. Tumor growth is the big issue with GBM, so we truly thank God for over 14 stable scans since her last growth in 2009. Her persistent headache for the past six weeks had us and Dr Nghiemphu concerned we’d see a different result on Wednesday, but we were able to dismiss that notion and focus on what may be causing Susan's pain. 

The answer on pain eludes us for now and leaves her hurting, weary, and frustrated. The scan shows a change in the dura layer which can occur with leaking spinal fluid and would definitely cause headache. Her shunt could have a small leak; or one of last year’s procedures might have caused one. But since Susan doesn’t have the pain typical of a spinal fluid leak, it seems unlikely. We decided to treat her pain for now with a medicated patch that hopefully will provide relief. Susan's ability to handle long-term discomfort with an upbeat outlook continues to amaze me, and makes me glad for the strong woman she is.

Pastor Larry asked for our perspective on peace for a recent sermon. Here are my thoughts:

How to describe the peace of God? Like love, joy, and hope, peace is one of our resources in Christ that is an attribute of God himself. It’s amazing that God shares his traits as ongoing gifts to us. Peace is part of his very nature:  “The God of peace be with you all.” (Rom 15:33)  And like God himself, his traits are as real as they are mysterious. You can’t see peace or touch it, but you can feel it and know when you have it. You can’t buy it, but you can receive it just the same. You can’t get more than you need and you won’t need more than you have, but you can give away all you want and still have enough.

Truly, God’s peace has attended us since the very beginning of Susan’s brain tumor journey in 2007. In spite of Susan being near death only days after we discovered her brain mass, the trauma never overwhelmed us. God’s presence gave us confidence that even if the worst should happen, we’ll be okay. In hindsight, we see how he laid the ground work months earlier when we happened to be taking Psalm 23 to heart. Verse 5 is a powerful image: “You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies.”

I picture a table set with silver, china, and crystal on a white linen cloth – in the middle of a battlefield. The enemies I fear are there; and there’s every reason I should fear them. But wait – whoever wants to annihilate me has been forced into a cosmic time-out. Whoa. There’s a greater power at work here. And not only does God show up and make it very clear who’s in charge, he wants to have lunch! Obviously God isn’t worried, so why should I be? In all that Susan's been through, God has brought peace to us in this way by helping us recognize our confidence in him.

The truth of another scripture also comes to mind. In Jesus’ farewell speech he said, “Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.” (John 14:27)  Worldly peace comes on its terms and with conditions. To get it, we must exert ourselves, change our circumstances; improve our lot. Even if that’s possible, there’s always more trouble on the horizon, so such peace never lasts. 

But God tells us the circumstances don’t matter to him. He takes our eyes off of our situation so we see only him. He meets us there to console and encourage us, to give us peace. Looking back at the situation, nothing may have changed but our perspective. Okay, so there’s the crisis we can’t fix. It’s big. But we know the Living God is with us. His resources exceed our needs. How will it work out? We don’t know – but God does. We just know he can handle it, so we’re going to keep following him.

Although Susan's brain tumor has been stable for two years, it contains aggressive cancer cells. Glioblastoma has no medical cure. She’s outlived most of our brain tumor buddies already, so we’re quite aware of our circumstances. When we think about it that way, it’s easy for fear to take hold. But that’s just another enemy, so God comes near again to remind us our lives our in his hands. We know he loves us, has a plan for our lives, and has a home waiting for us in heaven. This is absolutely what has been sustaining us on our journey. What would we do without God and his peace?