Chemo again

Susan started chemotherapy last week after Wednesday’s MRI showed her brain tumor has grown compared to earlier scans. The good news is it doesn’t appear to be growing quickly – viewing the current scan next to one several months ago shows only a slight difference. But the growth is clear when comparing this MRI to last year's, or this month’s PET scan to the one in 2009. To my untrained eye, the tumor area looks to be 15-20% bigger than before. It’s also clear especially on the PET scan that the “new growth” in her right hemisphere is not new and separate tumor tissue, but an integrated part of the mass.

Dr Nghiemphu recommended Susan start another round of chemotherapy now, not because it’s urgent, but because there’s tumor growth that needs to be treated. She’s also been paying attention to Susan's symptoms, not relying on visual evidence alone. She relates Susan's headaches last summer and cognitive lapse this fall to tumor growth. After discussing Susan's treatment options with us, we agreed with her recommendation to start monthly infusions of Carboplatin. Starting right away gives her time to bounce back before Thanksgiving and get December’s treatment done before the holidays.

We returned Thursday for chemo and got reacquainted with UCLA’s infusion center for the first time in about two years. Nurse Nikki fit us in to the schedule and gave us the run-down on Carboplatin. She calls it good, old-fashioned chemo. I’m thinking “hand crafted by local artisans in small batches for cancer patients with discriminating taste.” Actually, taste has something to do with it – one side effect is a metallic taste in the mouth since it’s a by-product of platinum. The drug has been in use since the 1980s for ovarian, lung, and head & neck cancers. Other effects include nausea & vomiting, slight hair loss, and neuropathy. It’s expressed through the kidneys, so Susan has two 32-ounce water bottles to drink each day to get rid of the toxins.

So far, she’s doing okay. She needs more rest than usual, but has been feeling well otherwise. We’ll be getting labs every two weeks to check for low white cell counts and kidney & liver function. Since chemo effects are cumulative, any problems are more likely to appear in future months.

As normal as life has gotten for us these past couple of years, the realities of brain tumor world still proclaim their presence, and not merely in Susan's latest tumor growth. There were just a few of us in the oncology waiting room at UCLA late Wednesday after we’d returned from Susan's MRI and were waiting to see the doctor and view her scan. I noticed two other couples, brain tumor patients and their caregiver spouses like Susan and me. After a few minutes, a nurse called one patient to the back for his infusion. A man who had looked pretty normal just sitting there struggled to rise after his wife stood up, then hobbled toward the infusion center with horribly spastic movements. That poor man, I thought. Look what brain cancer has done to him.

Moments later, my attention turned to the couple in front of us, a wheelchair-bound woman and the man attending her who appeared to be about 40 years old. She looked much older and had trouble speaking as he asked her if she wanted some water. Several times. He struggled to understand her and stepped away to refill her water bottle. She sipped from its straw when he returned, then labored to get his attention again. “Do you want to go to the bathroom?” he asked. Her reply pained me as she waived her arm up and down – “Gaaah.” He wheeled her toward us before turning down the hall. I saw the eyes of a 40-ish woman, evidently his wife, who appears fifteen or twenty years older. That poor woman. That poor couple. Look what brain cancer has done to them.

This Thanksgiving I’m thankful for Susan and for her remarkable progress over these four years. I’m thankful for her, her playfulness, her positive attitude, and her beautiful faith. We’re thankful to God for his presence, his love and faithfulness, and his gift of life. We’re thankful for our kids, each of whom is discovering their identity in Christ and learning to trust him more. We’re thankful to family and friends who pray and who stand with us to help in immeasurable ways. God has given us grateful hearts and the perspective to see our lives through eyes of grace, which helps us deal with our hardship. We’re thankful.